My work coach enlightened me regarding perception, early this morning and though the insight made sense, I still find my predicament unfair.
Perception is basically how someone views something using the basic senses. Perception is what you hear, what you see and how you view what is caught by the senses.
Superficial, yes.
And not to mention downright ridiculous.
But then how does perception turn from what one perceives, to basic judgment?
Easy. It's when you put meaning, whether real or not to what is translated by your perception.
And judgment, most of the time, is unfair.
The predicament I am in does not deserve being divulged. Apart from the fact that this is a public blog and what it is, is private... It is also a business related issue, which I find not just insulting, but also irritating, in the least.
How can people judge so offhandedly, most of the time?
Of course, I plead myself guilty because everyone judges... It's a basic act of a man's mind. And yet, even I would verify reality first before making assumptions of my own.
I guess that's a mature act... And let's face it, not everyone is mature. Including some that I work with.
It then all boils down to the fact that I am a regular employee and there are things that are out of my control.
What one perceives things and situations to be and random judgment one passes, included.
So, yes, I just end up ranting in some random blog, because business decisions are business decisions... And there's nothing that I can do but do my job the best way I can.
It'll all pass eventually and I'll forget it ever happened because I'm accepting like that and because I really don't care what other people say.
Hopefully, I won't be pushed too far with this because when I am pushed, I push back. And when I push back, I push so hard, they wouldn't know what hit them.
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